【書香】不乖

從小到大，小孩們都被要求 “要乖，要聽話”。
然，有沒有比乖、聽話更重要的事？
漸漸長大了，也漸漸了解到 —— 乖，並非一切。
我們要學習和培養的還有很多。
快樂的能力和責任的承擔這兩項，在我個人來看，是更爲重要的。

來看看侯文詠寫的《不乖—— 比標準答案更重要的事》吧。
以8种比“乖”更迫切的關鍵態度，迎向人生。
其中有章節，我超贊同的 —— 


別讓快樂輸在起跑綫上。
爲什麽快樂不能輸在起跑綫上？因爲人生本來就不是一場競賽呀！
所有那些我們覺得重要的、非贏不可的，到最後，無非都只是人生這個多姿多彩的風景裏的一部分。
因此，一雙快樂的翅膀是非有不可的。不但非有不可，而且還要越早擁有越好。唯有如此，我們才能跳脫你爭我搶的泥濁，得以在人生的晴空裏，開始自在地翺翔。
—— 摘自《不乖 —— 比標準答案更重要的事》侯文詠


不是麽？我個人認爲，快樂真的很重要啊！
人們普遍上認爲，越賺多錢越快樂。
實際上，這是真的嗎？
當物質條件到達某個水平后，得到更多的快樂其實不依靠物質享受的提升。

看完了這本《不乖 —— 比標準答案更重要的事》。我接著看了李家同的《讓高牆到下吧》、《故事68》和《陌生人》。這也都是值得一看的書。

 




這四本書都有由馬來西亞出版的版本，便宜得很呢！
大家不妨看看吧~

《不乖 —— 比標準答案更重要的事》裏的插圖由一位本地畫家 —— 衣谷化十所繪，在這兒讓大家過過癮~

 

【時光照相館】夢想的起飛

夢想，如果距離現實一百步。在我朝著它邁出第一步之際，它就只剩九十九步之遙。

大家，一起朝著夢想前進吧！
我們約定，五年以後，一起看看，到底我們此時此刻的夢想，在那個時候是不是已經實現了？還是，那終究只是夢想而已？


攝于2010年9月25日Pulau Pangkor, Sony Ericsson W910i

The incident of langgar palang

It was a sunny morning.
Has been long time never met this kind of weather. A suitable day for laundry.


I was riding my Reddie, from MARDI heading to IBS.
It's around 10:30am.
Normally, the barrier gate at the main entrance of MARDI will remain open at this time.

So...
I was thinking about how to write my paper while I was on my Reddie, about to reach the exit of MARDI.


While thinking, I had crossed the yellow lines. 
While thinking, I had crossed the bonggol. 
While thinking, I had reached the palang (barrier arm).
While thinking, OH MY BUDDHA!!!!

The palang was closed, but I was too near and had no time to stop my Reddie in such a sudden!!


BANG!!
LUCKILY the palang was made up of soft material and not fixed with only one direction of opening.
It was just being pushed by me and opened horizontally instead of vertically.
Ha Ha Ha...what a lucky girl I am.

The pegawai-pegawai keselamatan of MARDI were keep on nagging me.
"Depan sini ade garisan kuning, ade bonggol, baru sampai palang. Kenapa tak nampak?"
"Soli, soli. Tadi saye sedang fikir tentang projek saye. Jadi tak perasan tu palang tutup."
"Buat ape fikir masa bawak motor?"
"Soli, soli."
" Saye juga ade banyak nak fikir, risau kat 5 anak saye. Tapi masa bawak kenderaan perlulah tumpu perhatian"
"Soli, soli"
I was just keep on smiling and saying sorry, while he was copying my details, and its done...
He let me go after that and this incident had settled.






So, the moral of the story are:

1. Please concentrate on only ONE thing in one time, especially driving. This is so called the spirit of Zen.

2. There will be easier way to settle a thing when u hv ur smiling face  rather than a angry/moody/sadness face.

What am I thinking is, 2011 gonna be a wonderful year!
U may think that I am mad: What are u thinking?! girl, an accident just happened on u!! and u said it is lucky?!!

Wait, let me explain.
1st, I was lucky because the palang was not that kind of harden one which may caused injury.
2nd,  I was lucky because the palang was not fixed in order to open in only 1 direction which may caused me fall off from the motorbike.
3rd, I saw fireworks when I was on the way going home from tuition center yesterday night.
4th, my boss started to request drafts of my thesis from me.

What do u think??
Happy 2011...
Oh, one more thing...
The Chinese New Year is around the corner.
If u are interested in greeting card exchange with me - 

Chinese New Year greeting card exchange activity · 農曆新年賀卡交換活動

pls contact me.
I had sent out some of it yesterday.
Hv a great year ahead for all my friends ^_^

Chinese New Year greeting card exchange activity · 農曆新年賀卡交換活動

1 month from now, its CHINESE NEW YEAR!!!!!!

I always feel like writing a greeting card to my dear friends is very happy and joyful.

I like to feel the handwriting from my dear friends.

So, I was thinking, how about we have a greeting card exchange activity for the 2011 CNY??

How do we exchange? Any rules and regulations?

EXCHANGE, so, means that I would like to send u a CNY greeting card and u too are willingly send it to me, b4, during or after the CNY. The price of the greeting card is flexible, but the sincere to write it and post it, its priceless ^_^

So, if my dear friends who would like to join, pls leave a comment here, or send me a private message, or send me a sms, or tell me personally, or anyway u like to contact me. Then I will gv u my address and u hv to gv me urs. The most important thing is, I am sincere, and I hope u are too.

Due date will be on 30th Jan 2011, 4.52pm (Malaysia, GMT+8)...hahahaha :p

Happy New year ^_^ Hope to hear from u soon, my dear friends.

還有一個月，就是農曆新年啦啦啦啦啦啦啦~~

一直以來，我總覺得親手書寫賀卡寄給我親愛的朋友們的那一刻是很愉快的。

因爲，在字句間，我們可以相互感受到彼此的關懷。

所以，我想，不如，朋友們，我們來一場卡片交換活動咯？

怎樣交換呢？

交換嘛~就是我會寄新年賀卡給你，而你也願意回寄給我。

賀卡價錢隨意，其真誠祝福的心無價。

朋友們，若您願意和我交換賀卡的話，請在這兒留言、或給我傳個簡訊、或見面時告訴我、或……總之就是聯絡我，然後讓我知道你的地址，當然我也會給你我的地址。

最重要的是，我是很真誠及認真的想把祝福送給大家，希望在看著這篇文章的你也是。^_^

希望大家一起來參與吧~

請于2011年1月30日，下午4點52分（馬來西亞，GTM+8）前讓我知道啦啦啦啦啦啦~ :p

願大家新年快樂~

新的一年來了，你為自己設下了什麽目標呢？

願你平安吉祥。

目前爲止，已經寫好了一些。有興趣的朋友們一起來吧~
讓我們親手為心愛的朋友寫上真誠的祝福。
願大家在新的一年都得到滿滿的幸福 ^_^

美好的一年

2011年第一po！
小俠有預感，2011年將會是一個很美好的一年。
爲什麽？


因爲……
1. 雖然昨晚睡得遲，但今天仍然自然地早起，並且沒有因昨晚的遲睡而頭暈暈。
2. 早起的好處一籮籮：清理房間及書桌，上傳昨晚倒數拍的照片……
3. 買到一雙舒服又順眼的鞋。
總之，一句話，2011年一定超級無敵好！
這不就是吸引力法則嗎？哈哈哈~


願大家也一樣哦~
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